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COMPETITION, COMPARISON, AND THE UGLY SIDE OF BEING A WOMAN

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Hi, I'm Carla! Welcome to INSIDE OUT BEAUTY–I'm so glad you're here! This is a space where we invite God to clear away the clutter in our souls, allowing us to shine with true beauty from the inside out.

My deepest desire is to encourage you with biblical grace and truth, helping you discover joy in your God-given beauty and experience peace as you declutter your soul. Feel free to explore the uplifting posts and free resources on both inner and outer beauty, designed to offer you the encouragement and inspiration you need for your journey.

I truly believe that with God's transforming power, we can all become beautifully radiant from the inside out. Let’s shine together!
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What is it like to walk in a winter wonderland?

🐴 Horse drawn sleigh ride through the woods

❄️ Ice walking on the frozen lake

🧊 Visiting the Mayville ice castle

And to keep warm?

Good food & drink and even better company!!!

Thanks @steve.olson88 and @lisarochelleo for a magical, wintry weekend at CHQ!!!

#lakechautauqua
#sleighride
#winter
#winterwonderland
#icecastle
#mayvilleicefestival
#wintervibes

Are you making these 5 common Color & Style mistak

Are you making these 5 common Color & Style mistakes? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Let’s be honest—getting dressed should be fun, but sometimes it feels overwhelming. Ever wonder why some outfits just don’t work, even when you love the pieces? Or why certain colors make you glow while others wash you out?

Good news: It’s not you—it’s the choices you’re making (and they’re easy to fix!).
I’ve put together a FREE guide just for you: 5 COLOR & STYLE MISTAKES (and how I can help you!)

Don’t miss out! Grab your FREE copy now and start transforming your wardrobe today.

Click the link in my bio to go to my website and sign up for your free download! ⬇️

I'm here to make you look and feel beautiful from the inside out, so don't wait to start!

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Ever found yourself wide awake at 2 AM, replaying

Ever found yourself wide awake at 2 AM, replaying every “what if” in your mind? Yeah, me too.

Not too long ago, I was venting to a wise mentor about my frustrations, fears, and failures when she gently interrupted me with a simple but piercing question:
“Have you prayed about it as much as you have worried about it?”

Oof. That one stung a little—but in the best way.
She wasn’t being unkind, just honest. She listened, empathized, and even offered some sound advice. But she also knew that neither she nor I could change my circumstances. So instead, she led me to the only One who could.

If you've been hanging around here for a while, you might've noticed a theme in my posts lately. Since the start of the year, I’ve written about…

🔹 Closed doors
🔹 Broken relationships
🔹 Heavy burdens
🔹 Impossible situations

I can’t tell you how many nights I’ve lost sleep overthinking, overanalyzing, and obsessing over things I can’t control. Sound familiar?

I know I can’t completely stop myself from worrying, wondering—even wallowing. But here’s what I can do:
✔️ I can talk to God.
✔️ I can lay my burdens at His feet.
✔️ I can ask Him to do the impossible.

But if I’m honest, how much time do I spend praying vs. worrying? If there were a scale, would my worries outweigh my prayers?
Probably.

And then come the doubts…
What if my prayers don’t take away my worries?
What if God doesn’t act in the way I want?
What if the situation never changes?
Does prayer really work?

C.S. Lewis once said:
"I pray because I can’t help myself. I pray because I am helpless. It doesn’t change God—it changes me."

So, friend, if you’re feeling like life is spinning out of control and falling apart, can I gently ask you the same question my mentor asked me?

Have you prayed about it as much as you have worried about it?

I truly believe prayer changes things—because it changes us.
You don’t have to share what you need prayer for—God already knows. But if you’re carrying something heavy today, drop a 🙏🏻 in the comments. I’d love to pray for you. 💛

Question: What if you don’t have to carry it all

Question: What if you don’t have to carry it all yourself?

Are you burdened, weighed down, heavy-hearted, and weary?

For your family?
For your relationships?
For your community?
For your church?
For your job or business?
For your finances?
For your future?

Jesus tells us to come to Him with our burdens.

I often picture myself laying my burdens at the feet of Jesus–only to pick them back up again, heaping the worry, fear, anxiety, and pain right back onto my aching shoulders.

But I don’t want to live that way (and the Bible says I don’t have to!)

I want to learn what it means to lay my burdens down and trust that I don’t have to carry them alone.

In Matthew 11-28-30 (ESV), Jesus extends the most incredible invitation:

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Did you catch the exchange?

🔄 We come with our burdens ➡️ He gives us rest.

🔄 We take His yoke (easy & light) ➡️ He teaches us.

🔄 We learn from Him ➡️ Our souls find rest.

So, dear friend, let me ask you again:

❓Is the load too heavy?
❓Are you breaking under the weight?
❓What if you could lay it down and find rest?

Jesus offers true rest–will you take it–will I?

R – Release your burdens to Jesus.

E – Embrace His yoke (much easier & lighter!)

S – Seek to learn from Him.

T – Take a breath, a beat, a break, and trust His rest.

You don’t have to carry it alone. Jesus is waiting.

A Prayer When You Feel Helpless and Hopeless Some

A Prayer When You Feel Helpless and Hopeless

Some moments in life feel too heavy to carry and too overwhelming to face.

It’s in those moments that I’ve learned something beautiful about prayer–it doesn’t need to be polished or perfect—it just needs to be real.

The longer I’ve been on my faith journey, the more honest and raw my prayers have become. And over the years, I’ve found myself clinging to this humble, heartfelt plea:

“Dear Lord, please change the situation or change me.”

It’s me admitting that I don’t have the answers, but I know the One who does.

Sometimes, God does change the situation. He opens a door, provides a miracle, or shifts circumstances in ways only He can.

But other times? He changes me. He softens my heart, strengthens my faith, and teaches me to trust Him more—even when I don’t understand.

If you’re facing something that feels hopeless today and you feel helpless to do anything, I want to encourage you to offer this prayer. You don’t need fancy words or lengthy explanations. Just take it to God as you are—hurting, confused, even angry—and trust that He hears you.

He’s a God of hope. Even in the dark, He’s working for your good and His glory.

You are not alone in this. God sees you. He knows your struggle. He loves you deeply. And He is with you, right here, right now.

If you need prayer, please let me know. I would be honored to pray with you and for you. ❤️

✨ Accessorize With Me! ✨ Ever feel like your

✨ Accessorize With Me! ✨

Ever feel like your outfit is missing something?

Accessories are the secret sauce to taking your look from simple to stunning—and I’m showing you how!

In this reel, I’m sharing simple fun ways to transform one outfit using:

💎 Jewelry that pops
🧥 Jackets that elevate
👡 Shoes that speak style
👜 Handbags that pull it all together
👗 Belts that flatter and define

Accessories aren’t just add-ons; they’re the finishing touch that lets your personality shine!

🎥 Watch the reel, save it for inspiration, and let me know your favorite combo!

If you love style tips like this (and want to make getting dressed fun again), hit that *follow* button! I share:

✔️ Easy ways to elevate your wardrobe
✔️ Seasonal style trends
✔️ How to dress in your colors and for body type

Let’s make outer beauty just as fun and intentional as inner beauty! 💖

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How to Talk to God: 3 Simple Postures That Make a

How to Talk to God: 3 Simple Postures That Make a Difference

Have you ever carried a burden so heavy that you didn’t even know how to pray about it? That’s where I found myself recently.

I didn’t know where to begin. My heart was heavy, weighed down by burdens I couldn’t quite put into words. I needed to pray, but I didn’t even know how. So, I did the only thing I could think of—I stepped away from the noise and set aside time for solitude and silence.

In that sacred stillness, I poured my heart out to God, asking Him to help me. “Lord, how do I pray when I feel this overwhelmed?” And that’s when He gave me three simple yet powerful words: LAY, PRAY, STAY.

These words became a guide, gently leading me into His presence. They reminded me that prayer doesn’t have to be complicated or performative–it’s about bringing everything to Him, talking honestly, and trusting Him to work in His perfect way and timing.

I want to share these three postures with you. If you’ve ever struggled to pray or felt unsure where to start, I hope these simple steps will help you find peace and connection with God.

1) LAY
The first heart posture to take is one of surrender. LAY it all before God– the pain, mistakes, regrets, betrayals, failures, discouragements, hopes, dreams, plans, and doubts. Open your heart and hands and lay it all before Him.

2) PRAY
Next, simply talk to God—because that’s what it means to PRAY. Be honest and open with Him. Share your heart. Tell Him how you feel, what you need, and where you struggle. Don’t hold back—He’s ready to listen and help.

3) STAY
Although this might be the most challenging part, after you LAY and PRAY, it’s time to STAY. Wait patiently for God to move—in His way and His perfect timing. Trust that He has heard you, and believe He will provide exactly what you need when you need it.

No matter where you are or what you’re facing, remember to LAY it all before God, PRAY with honesty, and STAY in trust—He is always faithful.

🚪 Are you eagerly anticipating walking through

🚪 Are you eagerly anticipating walking through new and exciting doors this year?

🙋🏻‍♀️ Me too!

As we step into 2025, the opportunities ahead may feel endless—doors that seem perfectly timed, uniquely crafted, and just waiting for us to walk through. But how do we know which doors are truly meant for us?

After returning from an amazing executive coaching retreat with Lisa J. Allen (@lisaallenconfidencecoach), I learned something that completely reframed how I approach these moments: praying differently about open doors.

Instead of rushing to push doors open or anxiously knocking, Lisa encouraged us to pause and pray:

“Dear God, please help me not bloody my fingers trying to open a door that is not meant for me.”

Powerful, right? 🙏

This prayer has become my compass as I navigate the year ahead. It reminds me that discernment and faith go hand in hand. It’s not just about the doors that look appealing—it’s about waiting for the ones God has prepared for us.

And why should we only walk through His doors? Because Revelation 3:7-8 (NLT) reassures us:

“...What he opens, no one can close; and what he closes, no one can open. I know all the things you do, and I have opened a door for you that no one can close. You have little strength, yet you obeyed my word and did not deny me.”

As you face the doors in 2025, I hope you’ll pause to pray and trust God’s perfect plan. The doors He opens will lead to the peace, clarity, and purpose you’re seeking.

Let’s enter boldly into the year ahead—but only through the doors He opens for us. 🚪

#NewYearNewDoors
#GodsTiming
#FaithfulLiving
#Revelation378
#DiscernmentAndPrayer

Broken dreams? Fractured plans? Painful pasts? $Broken dreams? Fractured plans? Painful pasts? I’ve been there too. But discovering the Japanese art of kintsugi—where broken pottery is mended with gold, silver, or platinum—helped me see those painful parts of my story in a new way. Just like the cracks in pottery, our hurts and heartaches remain. Yet God, the ultimate artist, takes these broken fragments and transforms them into something redeemed and restored—a work of art more beautiful than before. Instead of discarding those fractured pieces, can I encourage you to offer them to Him? Trust Him to mend the cracks and create a new beauty you never thought possible.$

❄️ Winter Wardrobe Inspiration Awaits! ❄️

❄️ Winter Wardrobe Inspiration Awaits! ❄️
Hey, Fabulous Fashionistas! 💃

Winter is here, and it’s time to refresh your closet with pieces that keep you warm and stylish. ❄️🧥

In my latest newsletter, I’m sharing 6 must-have winter trends that bring comfort, confidence, and a touch of glam to your everyday looks.

👖 Embellished jeans for that touch of sparkle.
🧥 Quilted jackets to stay cozy and stylish.
🕺🏻Athleisure sets you can wear anywhere.
🐆 A pop of animal print for bold, effortless flair.
👟 Sneakers that are fashionable and functional.
👖 Luxe faux fur to add texture and glam to any outfit.

💌 Sign up now to get access to:

✔️ A Style Guide packed with photos & nearly 20 shopping links.

✔️ Tips on how to mix and match trends for every occasion.

✔️ Inspiration to make winter fashion fun, functional, and fabulous!

👉 Don’t miss out—click the link in my bio to take a color quiz and subscribe to my newsletter.

❓Which trend are you most excited to try? Let me know in the comments!

#coloranalysis
#styleconsultant
#winterfashion2025
#insideoutbeauty
#stylebycolor

🚪 Are you eagerly anticipating walking through

🚪 Are you eagerly anticipating walking through new and exciting doors this year?

🙋🏻‍♀️ Me too!

As we step into 2025, the opportunities ahead may feel endless—doors that seem perfectly timed, uniquely crafted, and just waiting for us to walk through. But how do we know which doors are truly meant for us?

After returning from an amazing executive coaching retreat with Lisa J. Allen (@lisaallenconfidencecoach), I learned something that completely reframed how I approach these moments: praying differently about open doors.

Instead of rushing to push doors open or anxiously knocking, Lisa encouraged us to pause and pray:

"Dear God, please help me not bloody my fingers trying to open a door that is not meant for me."

Powerful, right? 🙏

This prayer has become my compass as I navigate the year ahead. It reminds me that discernment and faith go hand in hand. It’s not just about the doors that look appealing—it’s about waiting for the ones God has prepared for us.

And why should we only walk through His doors? Because Revelation 3:7-8 (NLT) reassures us:

"...What he opens, no one can close; and what he closes, no one can open. I know all the things you do, and I have opened a door for you that no one can close. You have little strength, yet you obeyed my word and did not deny me."

As you face the doors in 2025, I hope you’ll pause to pray and trust God’s perfect plan. The doors He opens will lead to the peace, clarity, and purpose you’re seeking.

Let’s enter boldly into the year ahead—but only through the doors He opens for us. 🚪

#NewYearNewDoors
#GodsTiming
#FaithfulLiving
#Revelation378
#DiscernmentAndPrayer

A wrap up of 2024 with the best food, favorite pla

A wrap up of 2024 with the best food, favorite places, and most amazing family! Grateful for each moment, memory, and blessing this year has brought! Here’s to more beauty, joy, & purpose in 2025!

🔟 THINGS I WON’T BE DOING IN 2025 As we ente

🔟 THINGS I WON’T BE DOING IN 2025

As we enter a new year, I am committed to setting boundaries and intentionally aligning with God’s purposes. Here’s my list to inspire you to do the same:

1️⃣ I won’t dream small or limit God’s plans for me.
I want to step into His vision with boldness and trust, knowing He can do far more than I dare to dream (Eph. 3:20).

2️⃣ I won’t act without praying first.
Every decision I make starts with surrender. By pausing to pray, I align my heart with His and not my own impulses. (Phil. 4:6).

3️⃣ I won’t let fear dictate my choices.
Fear is a liar, and I refuse to let it hold me back. Instead, I’ll lean into God’s strength and love (2 Tim. 1:7).

4️⃣ I won’t take people or opportunities for granted.
Each person and opportunity in my life is a gift, and I want to honor them by showing gratitude, being present, and making the most of every moment God gives me (Col. 3:17).

5️⃣ I won’t let setbacks define me.
Life’s challenges don’t have the final say. God works all things for my good, growth, and His glory (Rom. 8:28).

6️⃣ I won’t compare my journey to others.
I will be content to stay in my lane and run the race God has set for me (Heb. 12:1-2).

7️⃣ I won’t silence my voice when God calls me to speak.
When God gives me a message to share, I will speak boldly and trust Him to provide the right words.(Matt. 10:20).

8️⃣ I won’t let busyness distract me from what matters most.
The world’s pace can be overwhelming, but I want to focus on what truly counts—seeking God’s Kingdom, being present with others, and living purposefully (Matt. 6:30-33).

9️⃣ I won’t neglect silence and solitude.
I’ll carve out quiet moments to be still before God in a noisy world. I will remember that time with God fuels my soul (1 Tim. 4:8).

🔟 I won’t stop giving grace—to myself and others.
Grace is the foundation of my faith. I will embrace my imperfections and extend kindness to others, recognizing that God’s power is made perfect in weakness. (2 Cor. 12:9).

Let’s step into the new year with faith, boldness, and purpose. Which one resonates with you most? Are there things you won’t be doing in 2025? 💬👇

🔟 THINGS I WON'T BE DOING IN 2025 As we enter

🔟 THINGS I WON'T BE DOING IN 2025

As we enter a new year, I am committed to setting boundaries and intentionally aligning with God’s purposes. Here’s my list to inspire you to do the same:

1️⃣ I won't dream small or limit God's plans for me.
I want to step into His vision with boldness and trust, knowing He can do far more than I dare to dream (Eph. 3:20).

2️⃣ I won’t act without praying first.
Every decision I make starts with surrender. By pausing to pray, I align my heart with His and not my own impulses. (Phil. 4:6).

3️⃣ I won't let fear dictate my choices.
Fear is a liar, and I refuse to let it hold me back. Instead, I’ll lean into God’s strength and love (2 Tim. 1:7).

4️⃣ I won’t take people or opportunities for granted.
Each person and opportunity in my life is a gift, and I want to honor them by showing gratitude, being present, and making the most of every moment God gives me (Col. 3:17).

5️⃣ I won’t let setbacks define me.
Life’s challenges don’t have the final say. God works all things for my good, growth, and His glory (Rom. 8:28).

6️⃣ I won’t compare my journey to others.
I will be content to stay in my lane and run the race God has set for me (Heb. 12:1-2).

7️⃣ I won’t silence my voice when God calls me to speak.
When God gives me a message to share, I will speak boldly and trust Him to provide the right words.(Matt. 10:20).

8️⃣ I won’t let busyness distract me from what matters most.
The world’s pace can be overwhelming, but I want to focus on what truly counts—seeking God’s Kingdom, being present with others, and living purposefully (Matt. 6:30-33).

9️⃣ I won’t neglect silence and solitude.
I’ll carve out quiet moments to be still before God in a noisy world. I will remember that time with God fuels my soul (1 Tim. 4:8).

🔟 I won’t stop giving grace—to myself and others.
Grace is the foundation of my faith. I will embrace my imperfections and extend kindness to others, recognizing that God’s power is made perfect in weakness. (2 Cor. 12:9).

Let’s step into the new year with faith, boldness, and purpose. Which one resonates with you most? Are there things you won't be doing in 2025? 💬👇

✨ Looking for a Speaker for Your Women's Event i

✨ Looking for a Speaker for Your Women's Event in 2025? ✨

The new year is approaching quickly, and I’m opening my calendar for speaking engagements! Whether it’s a retreat, conference, or special gathering, I’d love to partner with your group to share messages that inspire, encourage, and connect faith and life.

📖 I speak on topics like:

➡️ The Beauty of an Uncluttered Soul (based on my book)
➡️ Clearing Soul Clutter for Spiritual Health & Growth
➡️ The Fruit of the Spirit
➡️ Embracing God’s Design for Inner and Outer Beauty

💌 Special Gift for Speaker Coordinators! If you or someone you know is responsible for planning women’s events, contact me or tag them in this post. As a thank-you for booking me, I’ll send a personalized gift to the event coordinator to show my appreciation!

Let’s work together to create an unforgettable event that encourages women to embrace God’s beauty from the inside out.

📅 Message me or visit my website (link in bio) to learn more and check availability. I’d love to hear from you!

🎄✨ Ready to make your holiday wardrobe POP? L

🎄✨ Ready to make your holiday wardrobe POP? Let’s add some festive flair with holiday accent colors tailored to YOUR Color Code!

🎨 Here’s a quick guide:

CLEAR COLOR CODE: Adventurine (a pretty teal green)

DEEP COLOR CODE: Scarlet Smile (a bright festive red)

WARM COLOR CODE: Italian Plum (a deep rich purple)

COOL COLOR CODE: Moonstruck (a delicate icy gray)

LIGHT COLOR CODE: Cranberry (a luxe vivid red)

SOFT COLOR CODE: Evergreen (a deep lush green)

Adding these colors to your neutrals (think black, navy, or gray) can create a show-stopping holiday look without overwhelming your palette.

🤔 Not sure about your Color Code? Don’t worry—I can help!

Check out my website and take a color quiz to get started (link in bio) and book a Color Analysis with me and discover the colors that make your beauty shine from the inside out. It’s the perfect gift for yourself this season! 🎁

Message me today to schedule your session, or tag a friend who needs to know their colors! I still have a few holiday specials available!

#insideoutbeauty
#coloranalysis
#stylebycolor

Need some Holiday Outfit Inspiration? I chose a c

Need some Holiday Outfit Inspiration?

I chose a color palette that incorporated my neutrals (black & white), pop colors (teal green & red), and metallics (silver).

I added jeans, leather pants, and a long leather skirt.

My shoe options included rhinestone ankle boots, studded black Mary Jane’s, and red bow heels.

I mixed and matched basic tops with these layering pieces: fur jacket, cropped blazer, and velvet vest.

I included sparkle in my shoes, belts, scarves & jewelry.

I incorporated these winter trends to keep the looks fresh & updated: leather, faux fur, animal print, metallics, patterns, ladylike details, and velvet.

You see several outfits here…but the possibilities are endless!!!

#holidayoutfits
#holidayoutfitideas
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#styleconsultant
#insideoutbeauty
#stylebycolor

One the best things about having a birthday close

One the best things about having a birthday close to a holiday is that you usually get to be with your people!

So very grateful to have everyone together to eat, laugh, celebrate, catch up, and just be together!

God is good & faithful!

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#familia
#together
#grateful
#thankgodforanotheryear
#familytime
#familycelebration

Even though I created this gratitude challenge, Go

Even though I created this gratitude challenge, God teaches me something new every time I go through it. His Word, not my own, continually reveals fresh truths that deepen my understanding.

Here are 5 lessons God showed me about gratitude:

1️⃣ Gratitude takes practice.
It doesn’t always come naturally, especially when life is hectic. But with intentional effort, it becomes a habit that strengthens over time—like building muscle.

2️⃣ Gratitude changes how we pray.
When we start our prayers with “thank you” instead of “please,” it shifts our focus from what we lack to all God has already given us, filling our hearts with trust and hope.

3️⃣ Gratitude is ignited by worship.
When gratitude feels far away, worship can reignite it. Praising God reminds us of His goodness and fills us with thankfulness, even when we least expect it.

4️⃣ Gratitude isn’t based on feelings.
It’s not about ignoring life’s challenges but choosing to see God’s blessings in the small things—a kind word, a faithful friend, or His steady presence.

5️⃣ Gratitude is meant to be shared.
When we express thankfulness—through kind words, a note, or just being present—it multiplies. Gratitude is a gift that blesses others as it overflows.

What about you? How has gratitude changed your perspective? Share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear!

Every year, without fail, my Thanksgiving cactus s

Every year, without fail, my Thanksgiving cactus surprises me with its beautiful blooms. 🌸

And every year, I’m reminded of just how much of a miracle this is because, let’s be real—keeping houseplants alive isn’t my forte!

But somehow, this little cactus defies the odds. It thrives despite my neglect, my occasional overwatering, and my utter lack of a green thumb.

It’s like this plant and I have a secret agreement—I’ll keep it alive (barely), and it’ll reward me with its stunning flowers when I least expect it.

It’s a beautiful reminder that even when things feel a little out of control, there are still some small wonders that bloom in their own time.

And I see this as a precious gift from God-a sign of His grace & provision, even in the small, unexpected moments.

And for that, I’m deeply grateful.

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What is it like to walk in a winter wonderland?

🐴 Horse drawn sleigh ride through the woods

❄️ Ice walking on the frozen lake

🧊 Visiting the Mayville ice castle

And to keep warm?

Good food & drink and even better company!!!

Thanks @steve.olson88 and @lisarochelleo for a magical, wintry weekend at CHQ!!!

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#sleighride
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#mayvilleicefestival
#wintervibes

Are you making these 5 common Color & Style mistak

Are you making these 5 common Color & Style mistakes? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Let’s be honest—getting dressed should be fun, but sometimes it feels overwhelming. Ever wonder why some outfits just don’t work, even when you love the pieces? Or why certain colors make you glow while others wash you out?

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Ever found yourself wide awake at 2 AM, replaying

Ever found yourself wide awake at 2 AM, replaying every “what if” in your mind? Yeah, me too.

Not too long ago, I was venting to a wise mentor about my frustrations, fears, and failures when she gently interrupted me with a simple but piercing question:
“Have you prayed about it as much as you have worried about it?”

Oof. That one stung a little—but in the best way.
She wasn’t being unkind, just honest. She listened, empathized, and even offered some sound advice. But she also knew that neither she nor I could change my circumstances. So instead, she led me to the only One who could.

If you've been hanging around here for a while, you might've noticed a theme in my posts lately. Since the start of the year, I’ve written about…

🔹 Closed doors
🔹 Broken relationships
🔹 Heavy burdens
🔹 Impossible situations

I can’t tell you how many nights I’ve lost sleep overthinking, overanalyzing, and obsessing over things I can’t control. Sound familiar?

I know I can’t completely stop myself from worrying, wondering—even wallowing. But here’s what I can do:
✔️ I can talk to God.
✔️ I can lay my burdens at His feet.
✔️ I can ask Him to do the impossible.

But if I’m honest, how much time do I spend praying vs. worrying? If there were a scale, would my worries outweigh my prayers?
Probably.

And then come the doubts…
What if my prayers don’t take away my worries?
What if God doesn’t act in the way I want?
What if the situation never changes?
Does prayer really work?

C.S. Lewis once said:
"I pray because I can’t help myself. I pray because I am helpless. It doesn’t change God—it changes me."

So, friend, if you’re feeling like life is spinning out of control and falling apart, can I gently ask you the same question my mentor asked me?

Have you prayed about it as much as you have worried about it?

I truly believe prayer changes things—because it changes us.
You don’t have to share what you need prayer for—God already knows. But if you’re carrying something heavy today, drop a 🙏🏻 in the comments. I’d love to pray for you. 💛

Question: What if you don’t have to carry it all

Question: What if you don’t have to carry it all yourself?

Are you burdened, weighed down, heavy-hearted, and weary?

For your family?
For your relationships?
For your community?
For your church?
For your job or business?
For your finances?
For your future?

Jesus tells us to come to Him with our burdens.

I often picture myself laying my burdens at the feet of Jesus–only to pick them back up again, heaping the worry, fear, anxiety, and pain right back onto my aching shoulders.

But I don’t want to live that way (and the Bible says I don’t have to!)

I want to learn what it means to lay my burdens down and trust that I don’t have to carry them alone.

In Matthew 11-28-30 (ESV), Jesus extends the most incredible invitation:

“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

Did you catch the exchange?

🔄 We come with our burdens ➡️ He gives us rest.

🔄 We take His yoke (easy & light) ➡️ He teaches us.

🔄 We learn from Him ➡️ Our souls find rest.

So, dear friend, let me ask you again:

❓Is the load too heavy?
❓Are you breaking under the weight?
❓What if you could lay it down and find rest?

Jesus offers true rest–will you take it–will I?

R – Release your burdens to Jesus.

E – Embrace His yoke (much easier & lighter!)

S – Seek to learn from Him.

T – Take a breath, a beat, a break, and trust His rest.

You don’t have to carry it alone. Jesus is waiting.

A Prayer When You Feel Helpless and Hopeless Some

A Prayer When You Feel Helpless and Hopeless

Some moments in life feel too heavy to carry and too overwhelming to face.

It’s in those moments that I’ve learned something beautiful about prayer–it doesn’t need to be polished or perfect—it just needs to be real.

The longer I’ve been on my faith journey, the more honest and raw my prayers have become. And over the years, I’ve found myself clinging to this humble, heartfelt plea:

“Dear Lord, please change the situation or change me.”

It’s me admitting that I don’t have the answers, but I know the One who does.

Sometimes, God does change the situation. He opens a door, provides a miracle, or shifts circumstances in ways only He can.

But other times? He changes me. He softens my heart, strengthens my faith, and teaches me to trust Him more—even when I don’t understand.

If you’re facing something that feels hopeless today and you feel helpless to do anything, I want to encourage you to offer this prayer. You don’t need fancy words or lengthy explanations. Just take it to God as you are—hurting, confused, even angry—and trust that He hears you.

He’s a God of hope. Even in the dark, He’s working for your good and His glory.

You are not alone in this. God sees you. He knows your struggle. He loves you deeply. And He is with you, right here, right now.

If you need prayer, please let me know. I would be honored to pray with you and for you. ❤️

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